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FASHION | WHAT TO WEAR TO WEDDINGS NOW...?

October 28, 2021 Cathy Martin

Weddings are well and truly back, but are we dressing the same? Or are we downsizing the glamour like we downgraded our WFH workwear?  Are we spending like before? Or HURR.com-ing and hiring instead?

From what we’ve seen so far, you aint seen nothin’ yet… Guests are getting their glam on more than ever these days for weddings, always one of the greatest fashion frock offs in any friendship or family circle – and we like it!

We’ve complied some of the best tips, tricks and looks from luxury to high street, so you can be the best-dressed guest.

 

1.       THE BASICS

The start to a great outfit has to be the underwear – getting well fitted underwear that complements and works with the outfit you’re wearing is super important. An ill-fitting bra or the wrong type of underwear can completely change the way an outfit sits on the body, plus getting the correct underwear also means you’ll be comfortable all day. If you’re going to need a little room for that pudding pocket, then consider sizing up in your Spanx, it means you wont get that nauseous feeling as the elastic gets tighter around your stomach and waist area - and your lady bits wont be overly perspiring in nylon either, eeeewwww…

We love Spanx and M&S best here…. But Kim K’s Skims are still on our leader board too.

 

2.       PERSONAL BEST

Just because it’s wedding season, doesn’t mean you have to throw your personal style out the window and suddenly adorn yourself with what some feel is appropriate wedding attire, i.e. florals and pastels! If your typical style is on the darker side, then wear darker colours, just make sure you get pops of colour from your accessories. On the flip side, if you lean more towards the pastel trend, add tougher accessories such as metallic jewellery. Just remember, the old etiquette still holds; don’t wear white – and if you have to wear a paler colour of outfit, clear it with your host first! Don’t stick solely to dresses either, there are some absolutely cracking jumpsuits out there just ready to rock the wedding disco dancefloor. For ultimate fashion kudos, name drop some niche brands such as The Vampire’s Wife or Kevan Jon.

 

3.       ACCESSORIES

The usual go-to wedding accessory is millinery – everything from grand hats and headpieces to simple fascinators; but why not change it up a bit and put some crystal or jewelled hairclips in your hair instead? Not only are they slightly different, but they look elegant, especially during the summer months.  

 

In terms of bags, opt for a smaller strap-handle bag, or a clutch as these are less cumbersome and will nestle perfectly into the nook of your arm as you mingle.

 

When it begins to get cooler in the evening, pair your dress with a cardigan closed with a brooch at the neck, as seen at Erdem, or an oversized blazer. Pashminas have had their day – for now – but they aren’t all-out quite yet.

 

Shoes will bring your entire look together, and to make sure you put your best foot first, look at the terrain of the venue – heels and grass do not mix well. Perhaps a pair of wedges would be more suited? Also pack a pair of formal flats for when the inevitable pain hits.

 

4.       CONFIDENCE

The most important thing about the outfit you choose to wear, is that you feel confident and comfortable; and this comes mostly from a good fit in your frock. Don’t size down or up, the pre-event crash diets rarely work! Feeling confident is one of the easiest ways to be the best dressed at any event you attend. The same goes for your shoes, make sure your feet will withstand Champagne and canapes for two hours.

 

In FASHION Tags WEDDING WEAR, WEDDING OUTFIT, style consultant, stylist
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FASHION | PERSONAL SHOPPER – STYLIST – WARDROBE CONSULTANT: IS IT WORTH IT? YES! BECAUSE YOU’RE WORTH IT.

May 10, 2021 Cathy Martin
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So many people think a style consultant is a lavish indulgence, but in truth it’s a basic weapon in the armoury of self-confidence that should never be underestimated. In today’s blog, accountant Claire Stewart shares her experience with Samara Prentice of Evolve., a personal shopper that we love here at The F Words. (Check out our editor Cathy’s LIVE with Samara over on Instagram here).

But meanwhile, read Claire’s story, we just know lots of our readers will share familiar feelings…

CLAIRE: Back in the spring of 2018, my husband and I had booked to go away for the weekend to Paris for a city break. We had got engaged there 8 years before, so it has always been a city close to our hearts.

I’d had two little girls since we got married and I was feeling a little ‘lost’ if I am honest. I’d become so absorbed in their little lives, that time for me was never a priority. I’d also put on a few pounds which made me feel frumpy. I had heard Samara from Evolve Personal Styling speak at a business event earlier that year and every she said really resonated with me. She said “stop waiting to lose weight to look good – be confident, comfortable and beautiful just the way you are”. It was right at that point that I decided to engage Samara’s services. That was the start of my journey.

I booked in for an image consultancy session. I loved the way Samara explained the colours that complimented me and made me feel my best. The body shape analysis taught me so much – Samara armed me with lots of information about the best cut of clothing to wear to compliment my shape. It was such an enjoyable experience.

In fact, I enjoyed it so much that I booked a personal shopping experience with Samara and of course, the trip to Paris was what I gave her as my brief. I wanted to feel amazing again – I wanted to feel attractive and confident especially for our weekend away. Comfort and style was at the top of my list because I knew lots of walking would be involved. I can honestly say that I loved every single item that Samara so carefully put together for me. I felt so well put together and what was amazing was how easy it was to pack for that trip. I simply put it all into my case in a few minutes. Every single item worked so well together.

The impact that Samara’s services had on me personally was astounding! I felt like me again – only better! I know this would be a service I would continue to invest in time and time again.

As a Chartered Accountant, running my own business, my professional work life is extremely busy. One day I could have meetings in our offices, the next I could be speaking at live events or hosting a webinar. Samara taught me that visibility and first impressions are so important. She always says that we have just 7 seconds to make a great first impression and so we have to make it count. I can honestly say that with Samara’s help, my confidence has soared as she helps me to always look my best, yet feel comfortable in what I am wearing.

I truly look forward to our regular personal shopping days together and Samara has become my go-to style expert! She is my worst kept secret – I shout about her services to everyone I know.

Everyone needs Samara in their lives!!

F WORDS TEAM: So that’s it then, Claire’s conclusion is that it is worth the investment. Do you agree? Let us know in the comments or via the usual DMs or on social…

For further information, prices or to book Samara, visit www.evolvebysamara.com or email: hello@evolvebysamara.com Telephone: +44 (0) 7739158414

Claire Stewart
In FASHION Tags stylist, personal shopper, style consultant, wardrobe consultant, personal stylist, wardrobe management, style assistant
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